We give away our exclusivity before a man gives us the commitment we want.When we close off our options with other men too soon, we actually sabotage our ability to get the commitment and intimacy we so desire.Overly suspicious behavior, however, can harm a relationship.To continue in your relationship, you and he must work toward honesty in words and actions.
In this case, since your relationship wasn’t very strong in the first place, he is not technically with a rebound girl.
Don’t even attempt to to harass them or find out what they are doing with your ex recently. Okay, I understand that you just want your ex boyfriend to come back to you as soon as possible. As you are reading this blog post, I assume that you want a long and loving relationship with him. Don’t worry about him falling in love with the new girl. This new girl is just a rebound and almost all of the rebound relationships end up in a breakup.
And if you want that instead of just wanting him back for a short while, you should make him realize that you are the best option for him. The first thing you need to do is leave your ex boyfriend alone. I know it’s a little hard to accept considering the small chance that this one does work out. And the reward for taking this small risk is getting your ex-boyfriend back for good.
Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.
When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.
It’s the biggest mistake women make, and you need to stop it – right now!