If 1 and 2 Samuel had recounted David's friendship with Jonatha instead of Jonathan, or if God had included an 11th commandment on friendship, we might have ...Friendships with guys can be (let’s just be honest) awkward, confusing, hard, annoying, and so much more.Let me just say that I am not a fan of either of those options. I have guy friends from church who I really enjoy spending time within group settings.I am a fan of treating Christian guys as brothers in Christ and interacting in a pure, fun, God-honoring way. I think guys add an awesome dimension to the world. In the past, I’ve wondered how can I have pure, godly friendships with the opposite gender.When I told a friend recently that I would be presenting in NYC on Singles and Sexuality, she smiled and asked “Is there any overlap between those two topics? ” Of course, what is comical about her question is that it exposes the deep-seated desire among us, especially among those of us who are married, to pretend that the sexuality of Single Mormons does not exist, or shouldn’t exist, if one is good.
Members of the church who experience homosexual attractions, including those who self-identify as gay, lesbian, or bisexual, may remain in good standing in the church if they abstain from sexual relations (outside of opposite-sex marriage).I find that girls tend to do one of two things when it comes to guy friendships: Revert to sarcasm, flirting, and more flirting.Avoid guys like the plague and treat them as nearly non-existent.By this grace they "help one another to attain holiness in their married life and in welcoming and educating their children." Christ is the source of this grace.The law of chastity of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS Church) states that "sexual relations are proper only between a man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife." In principle, this commandment forbids all same-sex sexual behavior (whether intra-marriage or extramarital).acquiring and maintaining membership in the church and receiving a temple recommend is dependent upon observing the law of chastity's prohibition of sexual relationships outside of a marital relationship between husband and wife.