Let's cover some of the basic must's to successful internet dating: 1) The most important thing to have on your profile is good pictures. Initial attraction is so critical when beginning a relationship.
If it is not there, the two people will never come together.
If you are skeptical about online dating, join the club.
But, before you write it off completely, go to one of the above sites and do a free search. So, if you are out at a bar or club and you see an attractive woman, you will have to approach her to meet her.
Attracting women online is more than just numbers, but make no mistake, numbers do play a factor. When you’re active on 3-4 sites, this will take time out of your day. But the time you spend on it will be worth it in the end. Now I’m going to give you the more specific answer – women are indecisive.
Having a profile and not being an active member will do you no good. There are so many factors that come into play when women determine if they think you’re a suitable mate.
Online dating is (for a man), a mix between investing and being a salesman.
If it could happen to them, it could happen to you: Research chemist Neil Mc Carthy started investing in the stock market when he was 34, in the 1970s. He avoided technology companies because it didn't make sense to him.
When you sign-up for multiple dating sites, there’s still no guarantee you will so much as meet a girl.
Just like when you’re selling a product, you might pitch that product to 500 ready buyers and not land a single sale. Then day three, four, five, six, twenty, thirty, etc. That’s when I realized a 2 sentence snippet about how awesome you are at Modern Warfare 3), searching the member directory and contacting women that interest you, and responding to your messages in a timely manner. I’ve already mentioned my basic reasoning for being active on multiple sites.
"There weren't a lot of people using the Internet to date back then," she says.
"I had to go to Kinko's and scan in a picture of myself for my profile." Soon after that, she was on a date.
The beauty of internet dating is that it gives women a forum to indicate what they want without it being embarrassing or socially "unacceptable".