As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.
He had a roommate and I just figured he used it to take pics of himself for the computer.
This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.
I was very distressed and didn’t know how to approach him.
As when he was with me everything seemed fine, he was also mentioning moving in together and buying a house down the track. He did have issues, as his long-term partner had left him a year a go, and he had just finished the settlement and child support arrangements.
I’ve spent more and more time here for the past 6 months, since we’ve got engaged, so I’ve used his computer a lot more as well.
I was messing around one day and found a ton of pornography on it.
I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.