Most of us have only seen speed dating in movies and TV, where it’s portrayed as possibly the most godawful experience on the planet. It’s easy to make a joke out of a quick interaction with a weird character we never have to see again. Here’s the lowdown on what speed dating is like for real people: An equal number of men and women (usually 10 – 12) sit down at a table, armed with a name tag and a piece of paper. But meeting him in person, I found him fascinating and really enjoyed our conversation. At the event I went to last week there was a group of four girls, all of whom handed in their sheets with nothing but “Nos” circled.
When you're single and looking, the best approach to dating is to try multiple methods of meeting people.Speed dating is a great option, especially if the event is themed to match singles with a common interest.I especially love that the whole thing is quick — get in, get out, get on with life.After sitting down at the table and introducing yourselves to each other, look at your date and say something along these lines (playfully, with a smile): So, I've decided not to ask you what kind of job you have, or what you like to do fun.Instead, I'm gonna try to get a feel for your personality, based upon your answer to a hypothetical question." So at this point, you've caught her attention and set yourself apart from everyone else.For one thing, from what I observed, the pool of men that you are competing with for the choicest women would appear to be dismal at best.