But somewhere in between the passing of a decade, something changed. I became independent, confident, and started to value my self-worth. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person.I went through hardships and heartbreaks and picked myself back up which built my strength and courage. And as a woman, you are attracted to very different things than you are as a girl. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old.2.Often, when a girl has a crush on a boy her friend will dare her to speak to him or ask for a pencil, or better yet, let him know that she has a crush. It happens thousands of times a day in the lives of teenagers everywhere. The game of cat and mouse has a whole new set of rules for a girl like me.
When I was in middle school the kids were really into playing truth or dare. Amongst other stupid things like licking a shoe or making a prank call, there was always the dare to kiss someone. I have a bunch of transgender friends, but they're all spread out across the country. Our moms played matchmaker and before I could object he was my boyfriend. It was all cute and very innocent, until the day I tried to kiss him. As soon as my tongue touched his lips, he pushed me away and accused me of biting him. It is one of the great facts of the world, like sunlight or springtime or the reflection in dark waters of that silver shell we call the Moon. That may be so, but at least it is not so superficial as thought is. It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances. Gray and beauty is a form of genius-is higher, indeed, than genius, as it needs no explanation. People say sometimes that beauty is only superficial. As a 15-year-old teenage girl, I can attest to the fact that boys dominate most conversations between girls my age. It's something I dream of, something I want to feel." Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.